Stop Second-Guessing Yourself

Often throughout our day, when an incident arises, we intuitively know what we want and need to do. It's clear. We've already got that lesson under our belt. Our hearts and inner guides are clearly speaking to us about what we want or don't want to do.

But then we "think" - I should be open to change and new ideas! Maybe what I want is wrong. Could it really be that what I want is right? Probably not. Maybe I don't know what I'm talking about."

We're creating this angst ourselves.

Be open to new ideas. We're not always right in what we believe. Stay open to examining and changing your beliefs and ideals. But don't spend all your time second- and third- guessing yourself either. Your life will whiz by. You don't get anything done. And chances are, those second, third, and fourth guesses will lead you back to the place you started from.

Be Grateful For The Wind

It's easy in our lives to think that we'd be so much happier without that problem, that situation, those conflicts, those people disturbing our peace. What a hassle, what a ordeal, we think. Why can't our life just be calm and serene, peaceful, with no interruptions and bothersome events?

Sometimes, though, resistance is necessary! While it's important to live in a calm, nurturing enviornment, sometimes resistance is essential for growth. Take a moment. Look at how your problems have shaped you into who you have become. Living by the values you honor each day of your life!

When problems and challenges arise, they force us to examine our ideals, our sense of integrity, our honesty - become alert - and often during these times you learn something new about others and ourselves. Even our enemies, rivals, and competitors give us something to push against. They help us define who we are and challenge us to become our best.

Instead of complaining, grumbling and arguing about that problem or circumstance, thank it for being there. Right now, this moment, the resistance in your life is giving you something to push against. Bringing out the truth in you!

Be grateful for the wind. You need it to learn to fly!